If I am perfect I win... are we sure?

Published on 17 July 2023 at 20:17

Today I would like to talk  about the winning mindset that is conducive to achieving success.

Obviously there is not a  magic formula to achieve success, we read everywhere sentences that spur us to do better, which are certainly right, that we can share but that practically give us few tools to be really effective.

I will be forever thankful to my dad who grew me up with the attitude of “ never being happy about what you have, striving for success and always improve yourself in everything you do “

This is my daily motto, and even before this motto there is an important rule : whatever you do, do it seriously.

It is a way of thinking and approaching challenges that fosters determination, resilience, and a focus on continuous improvement.


As first thing , I set clear goals , maintaining a positive and optimistic outlook, which is crucial to a winning mentality. It involves believing in one's abilities, focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on problems, and seeing setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning.

I have a high but healthy competitive spirit:, I love to embrace challenges and view competitions as a meaning  to push myself and continuously improve.

In doing this , you need a good dose of resilience  the ability to bounce back from failures, setbacks, or disappointments. I see obstacles as temporary hurdles and I am  determined to persevere, learn from those experiences, and keep moving forward.

One important point is that  instead of making excuses or blaming external factors, I  acknowledge my role in my successes and failures, and I strive to learn from my mistakes.This is why I am  rooted in a desire for constant growth and development. I like learning from others, and identifying areas for improvement. I am open to new strategies and ideas everyday.

Passing through ups and downs gave me  a strong work ethic, discipline, and the ability to stay focused and composed under pressure.

It's important to note that this mentality is not solely focused on the outcome or winning at all costs. It also emphasizes the process, personal growth, and the development of positive habits and values. It can be applied to various areas of life, including sports, business, academics, and personal endeavors, to strive for excellence and achieve success.


So, how to improve and win?

 It is widely believed that those who won did everything well and those who lost did everything wrong. In sport it is not enough to do things well, you have to do them better than others. So we do not avoid the problems, we recognize the defects and we do not neglect the details, remember that for all our life we have to keep working to learn.

Remember that  perfection is an utopia and the pursuit of perfection is a losing mentality! We have never to forget that the others are NOT perfect too! So here we have to work and learn in our daily work to manage our difficulties and our faults, creating a wide range of "information" and attitudes that we will then be able to choose and use what will be crucial in that specific occasion, in that precise moment.

"Do not let your dreams be just dreams"





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