There’s a certain category of human beings that should be declared a UNESCO World Heritage.
Not for their value, but for their relentless ability to be a pain in the ass — without ever being invited to do so.
They’re the know-it-alls of nothing, experts in judging others’ lives while drowning in the mediocrity of their own.
The armchair coaches of your choices,who always show up when it’s time to point fingers — never when it’s time to lend a hand.
And you know what their superpower is?
Disguising nastiness as concern.
“I’m saying this for your own good,”
“I care about you, but…”
Subtext: I’m projecting all of my frustration onto you — but let me pretend I’m doing it out of love.
Here’s the truth:
- Most of them don’t have a fulfilling life,
- they haven’t achieved any real dreams,
- and they don’t even have the guts to try.
So they throw up judgments, passive-aggressive venom, and discount sarcasm.
Because it’s way easier to criticize those who try…than to admit they’ve never even gotten off the ground.
And yet — there’s another kind of humanity.
The kind of people that falls… but falls forward.
The kind that stumbles, breaks, messes up — but does it with their heart wide open.
People who take risks, show up, and speak with truth even when it stings!!! Those people deserve the highest respect ever.
And you know what?
Those people don’t deserve to be surrounded by emotional mosquitoes draining their energy and spreading their negativity.
So here’s my invitation. Actually — my order:
- Uproot them.
- Delete them.
- Exclude them.
- Block, mute, ignore.
Because anyone who gives you “advice” just to hold you back doesn’t even deserve to know where you’re going.
You have the right to protect your energy.
You have the duty to choose who gets to stand in your light.
Because life is already hard enough without sharing it with people who live to dim it.
Those who fall forward deserve outstretched hands, not mouths full of venom.
And if someone has something to say about it :
just let them know you’re not customer service for broken egos. 😉 Smile and just go away 🙂
Silvia
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