You Have Three Good Options. That’s the Problem.

If one option were obviously terrible, the decision would be easier.

Instead, one offers more freedom. Another gives you stability. The third interests you so much that you keep reopening the information.

You make a list.

Then another list.

You ask someone, and they introduce a fourth possibility.

Now you are busy considering your future, but the decision hasn’t moved.

This private online coaching course is built around a real choice you need to make.

Put the options on comparable terms.

We will begin by describing what each option actually involves.

The attractive headline is one part. We also examine the time, responsibilities, practical requirements and changes it would introduce into your life.

Where are you comparing a known difficulty with an imagined ideal?

What do you know? What are you assuming? What information could you reasonably obtain?

Those distinctions help us see the choice more clearly.

Decide what matters in this situation.

Everything cannot have equal importance.

We will identify your essential requirements, preferences and the compromises you are prepared to consider.

A possibility can be appealing and still ask for something you are unwilling to give.

Another may be less impressive at first glance but fit your present circumstances particularly well.

You decide what carries weight. We work on making that reasoning explicit.

Find out what you can test.

Some questions can be investigated before you commit.

A conversation. A visit. A small trial. A practical question you haven’t asked yet.

We will identify which steps could provide useful information and which uncertainties will remain even after careful preparation.

You will work towards a clear comparison of your options, the questions that still need answers and a practical next step with a review date.

I cannot choose your life for you or guarantee what happens afterwards.

I can help you examine the choice carefully enough to understand why you are making it.

Ask me about this private online course →

Write “My Options” and tell me, briefly, what you are trying to decide.

You can bring the question even if you haven’t organised all your thoughts yet.